I Love My Boyfriend With All My Heart

I like to game, I have to admit, I thank my partner in a good way, but I’m seeing that he plays a lot.... Like way too much to the point that today, he played in the morning, around 9am all the way to 10pm, he had some breaks in between. Recently I’d been invited to some social events and I was so excited and I told him about it, not that long ago he sent me a text saying that he was happy that I was individually socializing, and that he was sorry he couldn’t find events that would benefit the both of us when we go out, and he says that he’s bad at socializing. But it hurts me, because I kinda show no sympathy for him, because the only thing that’s stopping him, is himself. From my point of view, he’s not trying hard enough and is quite lazy, the only time he actually goes out is when I’m with him or he has a family outing, the thing is, he’s definitely not shy and unable to leave the house, he’s an amazing guy who’s wasting his own life away sitting on his arse playing Xbox. He sent me a depressing message one night and I was worried, very worried and I asked him the next day about what it was all about and he said that because there was no one online and there was nothing to do he got a bit depressed. I’m really worried about him, he’s 22, he shouldn’t be like this.