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How to comfort a girl ?

My sister is obsessed with this rock band she's been listening to she's in love with the bass player she has an obsession with him. She cries about him a lot even if it's over something stupid. He's 58 years old he's married to a girl whose around her age she said it's not fair. Even though he's almost 60 he still looks like he's 20 or 30. He lives in another country his band doesn't tour much here anymore he has a solo album coming out she's hoping that means he'll do a tour it's upsetting her knowing she'll probably never see him she can't afford to go to the country. She's upset because his wife posted a video of him shirtless she wishes she was married to him she doesn't care how old he is. She's pretty upset right now I can't get her to stop crying. He had his own TV show a while back it was on Netflix it's now on YouTube she was gonna watch it now she doesn't want to I tried giving her snacks like her favorite chips she said she's not hungry she said she's not feeling good. Times like this when she's
really sad or depressed she wished she could talk to him but she's shy she's not good with talking to celebrities. How can I calm her down ? What should I say to her ? Is it ok for me to cuddle with her ?
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I had a cousin like that...... she had an obsession with Ricky Schroeder. once she hit 20 or so, she figured that he just wasnt interested and she found someone else. some folks have a heard time giving up their delusions though.
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MaryJanine · 61-69, F
Your sister sounds like my sister-in-law. She is that way over a member of KISS band. She has sent him a picture with her hair curled and her mascara out to HERE - looks like a streetwalker. I don/t know how old he is, but she is already 52 and wants to meet up with him in LA.

Take your sister to a "head doctor" and let her talk to him. The man is married and has a wife. She has to be made to see this.
Iamonfire666 · 31-35, F
I think your sister needs to talk to someone. She sounds obsessed with him.

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