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I got blackmailed 😓😱😰🙄

So I’m bisexual but my family& friends don’t know. I never told them because I come from a religious society. A few months ago I met an older woman (online ) and we started to chat on the green messages app on the iPhone.
It was causal and fun at first we even exchanged nudes but she quickly became obsessive controlling and weird..
I hated it !! so one day I sent her a “sweet” goodbye message and then blocked her...But today out of no where she started talking to me on WhatsApp saying that she managed to find my Facebook account (I don’t even have Facebook, it’s some other teen with same first name ) and threatened she will contact all my family and friends on there telling them I’m bisexual “and “ upload my nudes all over social media.
Some part of me feels calm and another part of me is freaking out..
I’m not going to show the whole convo but this is some of it :
Is she just bluffing ?
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SW-User
Stop replying. Block her on Whatsapp. She's trying to get a rise out of you. If you're 17 she's in possession of and threatening to distribute CP anyway.

And I'd recommend not sending nudes to strangers anymore. She might not even be a woman.
SW-User
@Moon3624 all you have to do is go to report.cybertip.org and there'll be a form that you can fill out about the incident :)
Moon3624 · 22-25, F
@SW-User thank you! Do I have to be a certain nationality or living in a certain country ?
SW-User
@Moon3624 No, I don't believe so. They don't ask for your location, just an optional phone number and/or email to be able to follow up with you if you're comfortable with/want them to be able to do that.
StrawberryPocki · 26-30, F
Pretty sure you can get her in a LOT of trouble if she leaks them because you are a minor
Moon3624 · 22-25, F
@StrawberryPocki hope it doesn’t get leaked but if it does I will get in her in A lot of trouble
SW-User
If you know her name and can find her Facebook check and see if she has where she works added
Moon3624 · 22-25, F
@SW-User sadly only her first name and it’s very common
SW-User
@Moon3624 put her number in Facebook
I would do nothing as far as don’t react. Just save her messages to you so you can report her if you need to.
Moon3624 · 22-25, F
@Spoiledbrat that’s what I did
BlueVeins · 26-30
That's super scary and I feel bad for you. 😔 It sounds like she can't succeed at outing you given the resources at her disposal, but if I were you, I'd stop messaging her and block, if for no other reason so she doesn't get more info out of you. If she's dumb enough to think you're in the UAE, might as well not correct her. She sounds like a disease, and the less you give her the better.
SW-User
Hey someone did that to me once when I was a minor. She can get into serious legal trouble for it if you reported her. Try not to worry too much the chances are she’s just trying to mess with you. You know now not to send anymore photos to anyone you only met online,
Classified · M
Doens't fb have policies against displaying nudity? It's likely it'll be removed quite quickly.
And if they post it at an account of another person, that person or their family could also file charges.
They'd bring themselves into a lot of trouble.
NotJamieM · 51-55, M
It sounds like she was trying to worry you/get you nervous. So I don't think your responses were what she was hoping for. It is good that you blocked her, since nothing positive for you could come from any further interactions.

But she really did not like being called weird, lol.
Moon3624 · 22-25, F
@NotJamieM haha lmao
NotJamieM · 51-55, M
@Moon3624 she was trying to low-key it, but she asked 3 times, lmao.
SW-User
I am sorry for you have to go through.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
Sorry to hear this turned out so badly for you and that you live in a society where you cannot be yourself.
Some people’s ego get blown up.
I don't think she has anything on you. Anything she takes to whatever authorities will make her look so weird. They'll probably think she's crazy, which I think she is.

You don't have anything to worry about.
But I would block her everywhere I could and never send her another word. Don't reply to any of her messages.
nevergiveup · 61-69, M
some people get off by freaking you out and upsetting you. I dont think she will as she has had her fun. Just block her and move on
Moon3624 · 22-25, F
@nevergiveup I did thx 💞
Bushmanoz · 61-69, M
You need to mention the police. She is trying to hurt you. scare you and manipulate you. Message back as an adult family member and tell her the police have been contacted
Moon3624 · 22-25, F
@Bushmanoz I feel like by doing that I’m only gonna embarrass myself
I’m not going to do anything but if she actually does something I will..
Bushmanoz · 61-69, M
@Moon3624 You have nothing to be embarrassed about. She has manipulated you. But you do what's right for you
You can report it
jackson55 · M
Sounds like a guy pretending to be a girl. Block and don’t respond.
That's crazy! WHAT HAPPENED?
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
This is terrible. Really, really und terrible.
Ynotisay · M
That's illegal. But, I imagine, your last response will put an end to it.
Here's what you DON'T do in the future. You DON'T share nude photos online unless you don't care that they can come back to bite you in the ass. Side note. For all you know you were communicating with a 50 year old man. You need to think.
Moon3624 · 22-25, F
@Ynotisay it didn’t put it to an end but I blocked her ass. And no she’s an actual woman we did voice verifications.
And yeah good advice 💞

 
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