I Hate People Who Hurt You And Then Act Like Theyre The Victim

Sometimes people just seem so crazy, they have you believe being with them, maybe joining in an activity together was all about one thing when really it was about another and when it becomes clear that isn't working they come on all like "You ruined it". They add to that comments and hurtful accusations.
It wasn't justified because in telling me one thing when meaning something else, you misled me and when I tried to be nice with you afterward, you insult me.
Like how can that be right? You never were the victim.