I'm a One Man Woman

@Fungirlmmm i have considered polygamy - actually very recent . I thought , you know, if you truly love someone very much and they need to be with other people too for whatever reason then maybe polygamy is an option but i decided i cannot do it.

@CheerfullyCurious I have thought about that too. Still undecided. Not sure how I’d handle any relationship at this point.

@JesseInTX Me neither.

@CheerfullyCurious all I know is you're prolly not gonna find that online!

@OkieGemini i am not looking - not online or offline .

@CheerfullyCurious I'm right there with you!

@CheerfullyCurious You have good reason not to be looking right now. As your friend I highly recommend you wait awhile. In addition, I really think you are in love with your former man and it isn't fair to your next lover or yourself to take that baggage in. You know my story too. I ended up with the right guy. I know I will always worry about him being safe, but you have to shut the doors and make sure he doesn't have the key before you move on or you can hurt lots of people, yourself being the worst and I care too much about you to sit by and let that happen.

@Fungirlmmm thank you for your kind and very wise words. It is not exactly like you said in your comment (he is just the father of my child) but i agree that i am not ready for a relationship but mostly for other reasons

@CheerfullyCurious Yes. I agree. We can take it to PM. I love you my friend. Whatever you need I will help.