I Hate Bossy and Controlling People

There is this one person who works at the 'second home' I sometimes get sent to, her name is Camilla. Good lord this woman is two-faced, she'd make a good politician. How? Sometimes she's fun and sometimes...yikes, sometimes she comes across as an emotional manipulative little witch who wants to groom me to be like the others, she wants to remove my uniqueness. I'm okay with doing as she tells me, but showering as early as 4 in the afternoon and having to brush my teeth at the same time? Someone should tell her that's not how I do things back home.