You can't fix others before you have fixed yourself.

TRUE!!!!!!!

Correct.

That's a point too actually

That's right. But there are many girls my age and younger who want to "fix" people especially their lover. That's one main reason why the "good girls" fall for the "bad ones"... A desire to change them. But we all learn the hard way that you can't change anyone.

@dreamerfrombirth: See? There ya go! That was a primo bit of pedantry! Kudo's!

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I must confess I had to look up the meaning of pedantry when I saw your first response. But now I've practically applied it. So it will stick in my head forever. I learned something today!!!!!

Oh well. At least you used the opportunity to better yourself ...
I'm sorry she left though