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When you were in highschool, which one were you?

The bully, the bullied, or the bystander?

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Montanaman · M

The intervener. 👍💪👊🤗

Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F

@Montanaman Every hs needs an intervener. Unfortunately sometimes the intervener becomes the new "bullied", and the cycle goes on.

Montanaman · M

@Gelartsyyy I always did my best to stop the cycle.🤗

Lilnonames · F

@Montanaman me too

rckt148 · 61-69, M

I was bullied
My Mom weighed over 400 lbs ,,she ended up getting a complete gastric bypass operation to lose weight
but I fought so much over mainly boys talking crap about my Mom
my Dad started beating me for fighting
and since his punch's hurt a lot worse then theirs ,,I started taking it
Until the night I came home from boot camp ,and they beat my brothers up
The cops just watched as my Dad and I kicked butt

I heard one of them say "let them be ,this has been a long time coming "

But I never allowed anyone to be bullied around me
I would take a beating from Dad before I allowed that

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]out of those three options i would say the bullied.. but I wasn't bullied constantly or anything.. just a bit every so often [/c]

SW-User

The idc-what-the-hell-yall-doing-imma-just-do-my-homework. Lols

saintsong · 41-45, F

None of the above we all got along

Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F

@saintsong luckyyy

Fernie · F

I was bullied...but they regretted it

Kevin19 · 22-25, M

Bullied or bystander

LeighD

i was bullied because of how i was and who i hung out with, ironically the bullies all flirted with the girls i hung out with, if they werent idiots i might of helped them get to know them

LeighD

i was bullied as i hung out with a small group of girls as i didnt really fit in with lads, i hated it at time in school, especially in PE[u][/u]

Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F

@LeighD 😔😔🤗

Maximusmax · M

None of the above. I remember trying to step in when a person was being bullied

Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F

@Maximusmax Like @Montanaman and the others, you were the "intervener".

Phillyphan78 · 41-45, F

I was the one who got along with everyone

Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F

@Phillyphan78 There's always that one student who got along with everyone 😌 Tbh I used to be secretly jealous of people like you lol 😅 It's like you just know the right things to say, socializing seems easy for people like you.

Phillyphan78 · 41-45, F

@Gelartsyyy I've just always been laid back. I'll talk to pretty much anyone. Lord knows I have my moments though lol. Socializing isn't always easy.

Fungirlvape · 61-69, F

All 3 and I got the paddle

Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F

@Fungirlvape paddle???

Fungirlvape · 61-69, F

Yes frequently back then it was common in schools @Gelartsyyy

Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F

@Fungirlvape Ohhh I see 😮

SW-User

All three at some stage

Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F

@SW-User Same, and I regret it.

SW-User

@Gelartsyyy better to learn from our mistakes

SStarfish ·

The visitor.. The teacher's pet had a crush on me.. 😝

Chevy454 · 46-50, M

I was never bullied. The other two?? Maybe.

bijouxbroussard · F

The bullied, until I fought back. But I was never a bystander. I tried to help others being bullied from that point on.

Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F

@bijouxbroussard I wish I had your courage back then.

Somewhereovertherainbow · 46-50, F

None, I had a pretty good experience in highschool....

wildbill83 · 36-40, M

The Anti-Bully head buster... 🤔

ramgopal · 31-35, M

I was absent. Invincible hehe

xRedx · M

Bully and bystander lol

LeighD

i was the bullied

gobacktoyourroomandstudy

The bullied 🙄

Thevy29 · 41-45, M

Bullied

Reflection2 · 41-45, M

Non of them

iMystery · M

None of them

Bushmanoz · 56-60, M

I feel like there are more than the 3 options, I was small but an angry kid, so fought a lot, but usually with bigger bullying kids. But I'd say i had my turn at all 3 of your choices. Not proud of those days

Lilnonames · F

None of those i was the one who confronted the bully

Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F

@Lilnonames Question. Was there a situation where, because you chose to confront the bullies, all of them suddenly decided to gang up on you?

Lilnonames · F

@Gelartsyyy only once and i litterly beat the shit out of those two i broke the one girls nose and was beating the others head against the curb two guys teachers came out and broke it up.no one bothers me or my friends ever again

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