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How is life after abortion?

Do people feel guilty or just go on with their lives like it never happened?
I knew someone who had 3 in a period of maybe 5 years. I supported her for the first, the second I didn't feel for her so much, the 3rd I really didn't give a crap and I don't believe she did either but she was milking it for sympathy.
I remember the moment she looked into my eyes and realized I actually didn't give a fuck, she stopped talking about it so much.
I was born because my mother had an abortion and couldn't go through with doing it again, she shared with me what actually happened and it's the stuff out of your very worst nightmares.
@MushroomFaerie Times have changed and yet not so much. I hope you find a way. A way to have kids too. Because I know you are a fine woman. Don't let her past colour your present. I know it is easy for me to say. I believe in you, girl. I do.
@PoetryNEmotion That's very sweet, I really appreciate it.
You sound like you truly understand😊
@MushroomFaerie You are most welcome. I do...
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
It depends on the person and the situation or the reason they had to. Some feel relieved, some feel that maybe it was a mistake, who knows.
GlitterBug · 22-25, F
I haven’t had one but based on the entire rest of my life behavior I’d probably forget it happened after a few weeks and not think about it unless someone brought up abortion. I don’t think I would feel bad at all.
GlitterBug · 22-25, F
@GlitterBug I wanna add that it really depends on if you want a baby too. If you wanted the child even a little you’d probably feel guilt for a while.
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
Depends on the woman. I've known chicks who had an abortion, and it didn't affect them in the least. An ex got pregnant, and she cried for a couple days, then she was fine. A different girl I knew had one, and it tore her up inside for years.
Viva27 · 31-35, F
It’s the hardest decision in the world and for awhile it’ll consume you but over time it gets easier.
I hear that is individual. I know of a few people who had them. One seems to have gone on with little consequence. I think it is because she lost her mother early in her life and that certainly effects her. The other? She says she will never forget it because the baby had severe birth defects. I think people cope in all kinds of ways. Where does this question come from, girl?
karysma · 31-35, F
@PoetryNEmotion Some girl I know says she miscarried but considering the fact that she didn't know who the father was I'm suspecting she aborted but who knows
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
I have not experience with this and would not wish that choice on anyone. But for myself, I would still want to make the decision myself and have the choice.
My sister went a little mad after she terminated her first pregnancy.
karysma · 31-35, F
@ManicPixieDreamBoy Is she better now though
Rokasu · 36-40, M
An ex of mine had two kids and gave them both away. She still tries to mother them. It’s all sorts of fucked up.
Captainawesome · 31-35, M
It consumed me for years
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
It depends on who you are. Some truly regret it, some don't give a shit.

 
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