To my eye, the goodman project is just another blog clamoring for our attention. No biggie.
Your derogatory views had a place 25-40 years ago, when feminists were often political or sincere lesbians, when radical feminist communes required members to give their sons when they reached 5 years of age, or leave the commune entirely. First generation radical feminists heaped scorn on reproduction, marriage, and family life.
First generation feminism largely self-destructed on disputes between the lesbians and the straights.
I work with young people. Some of feminism is now taken for granted. But most of it does not resonate at all with women under 40. By 1995, aging first generation feminists were bemoaning the fact that their young adult daughters did not share their passion.
It is women commentators who taught me the word misandry.
It is screamingly clear that most men have nothing to be proud of and are falling behind in the great human competition. The shift from manufacturing to services has done much to empower women and to put men at a disadvantage.