I Want to Move On
I told some pretty little white lies to get out of spending time with my ex this evening. It didnt feel necessarily good but it is the first step towards moving on.
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ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
Last time I checked, you are responsible for your emotional well being, not his ;)
SW-User
I’m logically aware, yet emotionally crippled with romantic bias towards a certain member of the same sex 🤧 @ozgirl512
SW-User
I want to move on. That is certain. @ozgirl512
SW-User
My my. I tried that philosophy way too many times to know that is likened to slapping a bandaid onto a wound that needs stitching 😒@ozgirl512
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
@SW-User ummm, sounds bad... You really sure you want to move on?
SW-User
It is bad. In fact, it is worse. We can’t function as lovers and we are failing at being friends. Neither one of us wants to lose the other, so we’re hanging onto each other like our lives depended on it. Only she keeps messing up and I keep making excuses for her. 😓@ozgirl512
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
@SW-User have you tried councilling.... From what you say it sounds like a shame to walk away
SW-User
No we haven’t. We made a decision to end it based on our constant bickering. She was pampered from a prior relationship where they barely communicated because her ex was just terrible at it. Enter me, well articulated introverted extrovert with a knack for calling people out on their shit. @ozgirl512
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
@SW-User she sounds important to you still....I think it's worth the while to try to resolve the issues... The fact that we having this conversation would imply you feel the same... Try sweetie... You'll never forgive yourself if you don't 😘
SW-User
Yes ma’am 😏@ozgirl512
SW-User
I assure you, that is purely literal. 😏@ozgirl512
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
@SW-User good... I'll put this Jack back in its box lol