I’m sorry to hear that it’s boiled down to this but I’m also happy that you are seeking a way forward for yourself.
Thank you for sharing this. I do want to wish you the best and I’m sending some positive vibes your way

When it gets to the point that your partner’s self destructive habits drag you down , you really have no choice but to do what you are doing . Especially since the romantic love has died . It’s time for you to be happy again . 😉 . It’s a painful Process but necessary . Good luck!

And goes without saying, you don't need a man to make you complete. You are not broken. You are not vulnerable. You are strong, and can do this. I believe in You.

So well written and so honest. I am going through something very similar and YES I must move an and will.

I wish you nothing but luck and happiness my friend.

Outstanding. This is absolutely what you have needed to do for a long time.
Get busy living, or get busy dying.👍👍🤗🤗💕💕

I’m so sorry it came to this. But you deserve to be happy and feed loved. And you deserve a future with security. So your reasons for leaving are quite valid. I hope the pain and sadness doesn’t last too long. I’ve been there. Good luck. *hugs*

🤗 you put up a helluva fight. It seems like that could offer some peace sometime down the road. I hope so anyway. I hope he finds a way to honor himself someday too. That just sounds awfully sad.

Unfortunately, this happens all too often. My sister had it happen about 3 years ago. I had it happen almost 10 years ago. It’s sad when it happens but hopefully it’s for the best. Thank you for sharing.

That was very honest, and painful. Thank you.

Been there. Went to therapy. It kicks up dust. When it settled, I knew that my partner and best friend had morphed into an enemy and dropped all the qualities that made me love her in the first place. It was THE biggest challenge, like tearing off an appendage, but it was a huge step forward. Message me if you need to.

Don't chicken out. Do what you have to...

hi bella. i first read your story about masturbation, which was cute/funny. then i saw your longer post about what is going on with you and your spouse. sounds hard, but you are finding your way. good for you.
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I’m glad you have found a good therapist and are figuring out how to move forward. Wishing you well!

A heartbreaking yet hearthealing post.
I wish you well.

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Sad but good for u.why let another pull u into their unhappiness