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hartfire Best Comment
1. You're still young and driven by hormones.
2. It's much harder if you don't satisfy yourself in private.
3. Men are in the difficult position of being the ones who make the first move - which means they are likely to get rejected a lot if they choose the wrong women or make the wrong moves. Rejection can be disappointing.
4. Young women don't always know their own mind, or may change their mind at any point if something goes wrong.
5. There is often a mismatch. Many men only want sex; most women want a full relationship. If the woman is sensible, there will be no sex until a good friendship is well established and he has proven he is sincere and that he's the right type for her - and that takes time.
6. Men and women generally need to learn to be a lot more honest and direct with each other.
2. It's much harder if you don't satisfy yourself in private.
3. Men are in the difficult position of being the ones who make the first move - which means they are likely to get rejected a lot if they choose the wrong women or make the wrong moves. Rejection can be disappointing.
4. Young women don't always know their own mind, or may change their mind at any point if something goes wrong.
5. There is often a mismatch. Many men only want sex; most women want a full relationship. If the woman is sensible, there will be no sex until a good friendship is well established and he has proven he is sincere and that he's the right type for her - and that takes time.
6. Men and women generally need to learn to be a lot more honest and direct with each other.
