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I Am A Daddy Dom

[b][i]A question from a sweet girl, she asked me this question the other day and I gave her this answer....[/i][/b]


[b][i]Why my Daddy is not paying attention to me ?[/i][/b]

[b][i]My Daddy is a Good and Honest Daddy Dom. I love him and he loves me too. He has always been caring, protective and nurturing to me. He is always strict and firm. But this week, he is not talking to me a lot. He is not paying attention to me much. He says that he loves me but his lack of attention is making me sad. I don't want another Daddy. He is the best to me. What is wrong with him ?

First you need to accept that it is not your fault. Now the reason for this. Your Daddy Dom is experienccing Daddy Dom burnout. It is a type of mental exhaustion that happens to some Daddy Doms when they push their boundaries of control. With being a Daddy Dom comes responsibility. Sometime the responsibilities can overpower the Daddy Dom. Again it is not your fault. Please dont think bad about yourself. When the responsibilities over powers the Daddy Dom. They experience a type of mental exhaustion. The signs of that mental exhaustion is not feeling the desire to Dominate. It mainly happens in the discipline and enforcing rules category. It does not happens when taking care and giving attention to a little.

Your first step to help your Daddy Dom is that you should not loss respect for him. You should not see him as a weak. Next you need to make your Daddy Relax. I am not talking about sexual relaxation here. I am talking about activities that relaxs him. Like giving body massage, massaging his head. Then you will have to follow your rules without asking your Daddy Dom for few days. The Daddy Dom burn out does not lasts for more then a week. If you always enjoyed rough sex then do some gentle love making this time. Gentle love making helps to heal the exhaustion. If your Daddy Dom does not knows about Daddy Dom burn out then maybe you can show this article to him. You both can then work together and do stress releasing acitives. He will be back to his active Daddy Dom energy in few days.

There is little burnout too. That happens when there is just too many rules to follow and the little tries to force herself to change all behaviors all at once. As a result the little becomes mentally exhausted. Remember that DDLG relationship is a journey. Not a marathon. Dont rush yourself in excitement. If you feel mentally exhausted then tell your Daddy Dom. Work together. The exhaustion will go away in few days and both of you will be back to your regular Little and Daddy Dom energy.

~Master~

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SW-User
Sir! I didn't even realize you knew stuff about the DDlg! Usually Masters are just, well, Masters! Now I know why I was sharing that other side of me with you! ๐Ÿค—
masterofyou ยท 70-79, M
Well I don't eat hot food all the time... โ˜บ
SW-User
@masterofyou That's good! :)
masterofyou ยท 70-79, M
@SW-User ๐Ÿค—
Do you have more information on the "little burnout" by any chance??? I'm particularly interested in how the little might feel when in this state...
masterofyou ยท 70-79, M
@HootyTheNightOwl yes that too, as I failed to include, and even questioning if she is should be in this lifestyle..
@masterofyou Thank you... you've been most helpful in helping me to understand something that has happened to me, but I never quite understood why I felt that way at the time.
masterofyou ยท 70-79, M
@HootyTheNightOwl I have gone through this and have almost left the lifestyle I'm not sure I might be going through this again. It's my pleasure that I was able to help..

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joesand99 ยท 41-45, M
I really enjoyed this! Thank you both. raregem you are obviously a sweet baby girl and masterofyou has some great experience too! Pleasure to meet you both.
joesand99 ยท 41-45, M
@SW-User Do you have a Daddy now?
SW-User
@joesand99 My husband tries. :)
joesand99 ยท 41-45, M
@SW-User That is a start. What I have found is that you can learn some of it and work hard on it but a lot of it is natural. I found I was dominant and have so enjoyed it. I am happy he is trying and hopefully that is good for you. Life often gets in the way of a bdsm/ddlg relationship so if he is willing to try during play time that is a good thing
olderuncle944 ยท 70-79, M
very good description I think burn out some times comes ever so often with any dom we are only human
masterofyou ยท 70-79, M
@olderuncle944 Doms are just humans, not Gods....
olderuncle944 ยท 70-79, M
how well we know and with families work and obligations its difficult to find enough hrs

I do enjoy reading your post very informative

 
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