I Can Be So Clueless Sometimes

You know Steve Harvey has the 90 day rule for a reason. He says that women shouldn't become intimate with a man until after 90 days have passed because it takes that long for a man to develop an emotional attachment to a woman. I am not certain about that but I do know the best male/female relationship I ever had was one where physical intimacy was left out of the equation for an extended amount of time. My advice is to date and not get too caught up in the whole thing and when you do finally find someone that is worthy of you then sit back and see how it goes for a few months and don't try to make the relationship move too fast. You are a little younger than me so let me just tell you that there is hope. I can remember thinking in my 30's what the heck am I doing? Why does no one want to get to know the real me? Will anyone accept me for me and the answer was yes to that last question by the way. Just be yourself and work on anything that you see as a negative about yourself. Be ready when that special person comes along.

yuo