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Are you moving forward with this since writing this post?
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NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F
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@NaturalBeautyQueen sounds as though you deserve that
NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F
InOtterWords · F
Hi,
Can I PM you about this. I went through something similar.
Can I PM you about this. I went through something similar.
NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F
Thank you! Good luck to you too. @Ewitsu
BalmyNites · F
You do know that, regardless of your age, if you have this procedure you will prematurely go through the menopause? That means all the things which your body would've gone through in your later years, will start to happen immediately. You will need to take artificial hormone replacements, with all the associated risks & you could have hair loss, lose bone density & many other wonderful things. My advice is to think twice, this would be a huge step.
NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F
Thank you! But I would rather have menopause than to be in all this pain. At least hopefully, I can be mobile again and be able to do things on my own. I’ll continue to research it, but I think I would go in the direction to get it. @BalmyNites
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NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F
What’s sad is you judging me without knowing the entire story.
Did you read the part about me having a painful chronic condition? Contraceptives makes it worse. The last time my brain shut down, blood dropped and my heart was racing, I had excruciating pain, and blood in my urine, severe back pains, it also put me in the hospital, I was completely out. My doctor put me on several different kinds of birth control, to help with my painful periods, but it made my chronic painful condition worse. She thinks that surgery to help with my periods is the way to go. But that won’t help my chronic condition. Having a hysterectomy can help me a great deal, which is what I heard from others who suffered the same illness.
Why am I afraid of getting pregnant again? Because my last pregnancy almost killed me. I can barely walk anywhere but when I do, I can’t go too far. I need help most of the time. And I can’t drive. I’m afraid of being pregnant because I don’t want to be in worse pain, to where I can’t take care of the children I already have, or it kill me, leaving my children without a mother. I choose not to be in a relationship, because of this.
@unknownpoetx
Did you read the part about me having a painful chronic condition? Contraceptives makes it worse. The last time my brain shut down, blood dropped and my heart was racing, I had excruciating pain, and blood in my urine, severe back pains, it also put me in the hospital, I was completely out. My doctor put me on several different kinds of birth control, to help with my painful periods, but it made my chronic painful condition worse. She thinks that surgery to help with my periods is the way to go. But that won’t help my chronic condition. Having a hysterectomy can help me a great deal, which is what I heard from others who suffered the same illness.
Why am I afraid of getting pregnant again? Because my last pregnancy almost killed me. I can barely walk anywhere but when I do, I can’t go too far. I need help most of the time. And I can’t drive. I’m afraid of being pregnant because I don’t want to be in worse pain, to where I can’t take care of the children I already have, or it kill me, leaving my children without a mother. I choose not to be in a relationship, because of this.
@unknownpoetx
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2cool4school · 46-50, F
@NaturalBeautyQueen ignore him
Mamapolo2016 · F
Mamapolo2016 · F
@NaturalBeautyQueen No. Thirty years ago they were all about doing hysterectomies, even for no particular reason. I know that has changed, but I should think your gynecologist could recommend someone.
NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F
I sure hope she does. That would be wonderful. I’m so nervous. But I know that getting it will help me a lot, especially my health. Thank you! @Mamapolo2016
Mamapolo2016 · F