I Had An Epiphany

The first revelation I've had starting 2019: When girls on Tinder write "Not here for Friends with Benefits / One night stands" they're lying because that's their anti-slut defense. If you've watched Wolf of Wall Street you know this.

Here's the revealing article talking all about it:
http://www.returnofkings.com/87865/translations-for-5-common-things-women-say-on-tinder

I can't believe I've been so dumb as to believe that when women say "I'm not into sex", they're lying.

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amethyst1 · 36-40, F

Initially I felt on the defense side of this, then I thought well, I don't actually use tinder and I don't know how other women behave. Can I just say you're not dumb... Having read some of the article it does ring true to the way women behave, or things we feel might be expected of us. It also makes sense why men can find women so confusing!! I'm going to reread it when I can concentrate better...interesting to see people's behaviours.

Existentior · M

@amethyst1 Yes, it is interesting indeed. I just feel like a big fool now.