I know it can be hard to take the first step but if you can, try to do it first for yourself. Took me a long time to get over my thoughts on talking to someone, but I finally did and then took longer for me to open up about everything. If you wait for someone else to step in, sometimes but not all, they will retain control over the help you get and when you can leave. I'm not too happy about that.
I don't know about you, but I am someone that likes to be in control of my life and not leave it in the hands of others. If you can do it yourself, try. Make the call or find someone you can talk to on place like this, one where they don't really know you, but you feel connected to. That might help get you started. Just a few of my own thoughts on the subject.
But whatever happens, I wish you all the best on this. Yeah, it's not easy, but it can be a great thing once started.