I Believe That Men And Women Can Be Friends

God has shown me time and time again that I cannot just be friends with men, especially if one of us finds the other attractive without eventually one of us developing innappropriate feelings eventually....I wouldn't want to lean on another man for emotional support other than my own husband...I don't want to go on a coffee date, I don't want to flirt or cuddle or be intimate with another man, because it will all come to light eventually for all to see eventually in my case and its really embarrassing and uncomfortable and ruins the relationship be it with a friend or an aquaintance or a professional relationship....But with that being said I do enjoy men for who they are such as a godly brother in Christ or my husbands buddies or a girlfriends husband...these men are much more enjoyable because we already have unspoken boundaries set in place...and I can enjoy them for who they are without worrying.....