I Believe That Men And Women Can Be Friends

Girls, what's my weakness? MEN! I don't know if I can just ever love a guy like a brother whom I am physically attracted to. I think that my mind would wander off into the deep....Romantic desires would stir eventually I'm sure......I wonder if I could ever just love another man like a brother in Christ, who was truly beautiful on the inside, good with kids, kind to all people, a gentle soul with a strong sense of integrity, my mind might covet that for my own, and be jealous of anyone who wanted to take that away from me.....That's why I avoid most men, I am never interested in the pervs, or the guys who hit on me, no it's those who are way out of my league who are beautiful on the inside and out who I go ga ga for, and once I realize that I'm drooling I run! Because I do love my husband, and I do respect other mens wives....My only hope is that if one of those men caught me stareing that they wouldn't feel uncomfortable, but be flattered that they have caught my eye. They must be special....But I just can't bring myself to be friends with them on those terms, my intentions aren't pure, so I walk away.....I can be friends however with my girlfriends husbands, and my husbands buddies, and my uncles, I love them like brothers and it's all cool. Truth be told I don't ever want to go astrey, because the consequences far outweigh the thrill....Plus most men can't think with the right head anyways, which is a total turn off. I could live without them.