Someone explain how to use this please?

Yeah it use to have a 'chatroom' but since they did away with them it sorta missing something to me personally. It's now very hard making friends on there. I mean you've really gotta be selling yourself with whatever fetish it is you are into on your profile (descriptive fantasy, pictures, vids, etc) you gotta be following the right fetish groups and the right people associated with whatever fetishes it is you are into and it's not a very instant laid on site I'm afraid.
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