I've been on it for years and changed my profile with my life changes.. It leans more towards BDSM and darker kinks than here on SW, but you can keep it applicable to your interests with and without the kinks.. I like it because you can find locals and they can find you, and if you explain enough in your profile.. you can find a close match to what you are looking for...
PM me for my ID on fetlife and take a look to see if it is for you...
It's different to here. I think it's more geared to hooking up in real life locally. At least, that's how it has worked for me. However, I spend way more time here, way more than I should. They're similar but different.
@maturedragon Fetlife is a website where kinky people gather. It doesn't matter what your kink is, or which side of it you are on you will find people there who also like it.