What's your view on married men messaging girls on here or anywhere else?

i have and have had some married friends on here, who talk to me in nothing more than a platonic way, some people try with less than innocent intentions, and there are many cases of people who are just talking to someone who they think is nice or cool with totally innocent intentions. it happens.

Yes and no... it depends on their relationships and if their spouses are aware/approve

I'm a married woman and I message men on here to chat about my favourite topic. There is no harm in that, so I don't see what harm there is in the reverse. Messaging people on websites isn't being unfaithful.

I have several male friends that are married and they treat me like a friend, that's it.

im harmless 😇

I think you can be friends with married men but on here?.. depends on the person.

I doubt it. You can guarantee that their wives don't know that they are on this site.

It depends on what they say, doesn't it ?

My instinct says not innocent.

I know I am taking this from the guys point of view and I have no intention of speaking on behalf of other guys.

It is harmless visual and conversational stimulation...Nothing more and nothing less...Flirting is all fun and games until someone buys a plane ticket.

Does my wife know I am on here? Absolutely, but then again I have an open marriage and we are swingers.

Does that mean that I can go see someone randomly? Absolutely not, what makes an open marriage work is the fact that we have great communication and permission would always be required.

Am I a flirt on here? Absolutely as well...But I flirt with zero expectations.

mope none of them are innocent.. even married women on here ive known have cheated. i dont really get it why there is so many

It depends on their relationship and what exactly they are trying to accomplish with these messages.

It can lead to not so harmless intentions

They don't seem harmless

Nothing good can come from that. Lol

It's fine

I think single, married, young, old...it all depends. I have several very open and mature conversations with married men on here. And I have met some really nasty, perverted single guys on here.

I'm married and talk with people on here off and on, some of whom are teenage girls. I also make it SUPER clear I'm married, I immediately cut contact if anyone hits on me, and my wife is aware I go on SW. I don't say anything I wouldn't be comfortable with her seeing. The reason I like being on here is I can interact with people I probably wouldn't run into normally.

But uh... I very much get that may not be common. There's a ton of predatory creeps on here.

Might seem harmless but give it time. An why are they messaging girls here , go talk to the wife an give her the attention

It definitely can be. I'm not going to judge anyone for certain until I know them, but that's a very fair suspicion to have.

Well...what can u do?
It happens!

If they are not hiding anything or doing anything wrong why not ...I would imagine the genuine ones tell their wives tbh

No big deal, its not their fault their women dont know how to take care of business at home