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Did I stand up to the bully ?

This girl I work with she's kinda of a bully.. she's like 400lbs, super snappy insecure type.. she started out I noticed making a comment almost every single day about me. Whether it was the clothes I wear, my shoes, wanting to know what size pants I wear, things about my personality like apparently I ask a lot of questions, or "gee you're quiet today", just like constant poking and prodding.. well yesterday she called out our boss "ew you like chocolate?" I asked her if she was the chocolate police she had no response... today she told this older guy "you have really small hands".. finally had enough of it so I causuallly said "gee you like making comments about other people huh? It's like everyday I hear another comment about someone else" her response was.. "no you make a lot of comments about other people" she was real red in the face when she said it.. I just kinda smirked and said "girl, don't turn this around on me.. that definitely isn't true" she got up and left was totally pissed lol... was what I said really that bad? You could tell she was like huffing and puffing the rest of the day.. think she'll reflect on what I said and maybe stop making those prodding comments to people ? Or to me at the very least? Was I wrong to do what I did?
Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 26-30, F
You weren't wrong at all. Some people need a serious reality check. Kudos to you for keeping it classy and not tearing her stupid insecure ass to shreds.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
you were definently not wrong. I hate people like that. Sounds very insecure and unhappy with herself. I find that the ones that talk most usually are. Because they don't have anything truly worth saying. So they talk about someones appearance and whatever else.
Alittlebitofsomething · 26-30, F
You were too nice but good job bully's are the worst especially grown ass bullies
melmouthfulls · 51-55, F
CuTiePi · F
no I don't think so you could have done her a favour....she seems insecure.
It was good you spoke up to her. But chances are she won't change.
SW-User
You did the right thing

 
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