Does anyone else just get tired of it?

Pretending to be someone you're not just on the off chance people will talk to you? Not talking about gender, sexuality etc. Just that me as a person never seems to be good enough.

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nevergiveup · M

I dont get many talk to me. I am normal and on here thats not cool

submissivelittlewoman · F

You should never have to pretend to be someone you’re not.

You are good enough... and if people can’t see that, they are not worth your time.

Beautifullyderanged · 36-40, F

@submissivelittlewoman most of the time I think like that,but when it gets lonely it's hard to believe

submissivelittlewoman · F

@Beautifullyderanged ((hugs))

SW-User

@submissivelittlewoman 👏 This deserves Best Answer

Viper · M

Yes absolutely... I'm an introvert and have to be an extrovert at times for socializing... and sometimes it gets mad tiring and wears me down and I need breaks and my alone time.

SW-User

@Viper this

SW-User

No

You’re good enough.

Your humble question proves it.

If you are treated badly it’s on them not you.

I have spent time alone before because certain circles/cliques have intentionally excluded me, it hurts badly but they did me a favour because after a little while of being on my own I eventually met better people.

SW-User

I feel like you. I feel I have to pretend to be someone else to get what I want.

And well, that sucks. 🙄

Beautifullyderanged · 36-40, F

@SW-User yep. You'd think with the amount of people on this planet there would be some people out there who like us for who we are...

SW-User

Yes... but I guess I choose to always be alone because I won’t be something I’m not to appease someone

SW-User

Most people do. Most of it is actually s survival thing for some

SW-User

...yes.

Beautifullyderanged · 36-40, F

@SW-User 😞

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