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What's one thing you hate people saying when you're upset?

For me its- "it's not that big of a deal"
@TexChik we're coming into my favorite time of year
@Chevy454 no need to
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
Ok thanks!!!👍👍@saragoodtimes
TexChik · F
Honestly , if I’m noticeably upset , I don’t hear anything anyone says ... just a rushing in my ears .
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@TexChik That's intense yeah
TexChik · F
@RaemaSnr thats ptsd
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
"Put the knife down"
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@Harriet03 👀 oh damn
SW-User
Anything at all. I'd rather just be left alone.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User Yeah some people don't know how to comfort and end up making it worse
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
That’s why I usually don’t tell people what is going on in my life. I don’t want their support or words of comfort. I always manage to get through things.@SW-User
SW-User
@Keepitsimple Same here
SW-User
OK but I can't help you with it.
😒😒😁😁😁 One didn't want their help just them to listen
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User yep sometimes you don't need the advice
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
“It’ll get better”

No shit, I know that.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@Keepitsimple Right, I wouldn't want it to [b]Get[/b] better I want it "better" rn
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@RaemaSnr Yup, people say things just to cheer people up and sometimes don’t know what to say at all really.
VeronicaPrincess · 61-69
Pretty much anything, I just want them to shut up.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@VeronicaPrincess right😂
Them: "You did your best"
In my head: "yeah and it wasn't good enough"
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@TopCat I get that
RubySoo · 56-60, F
It is what it is....
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@RaemaSnr its been said to me a lot by younger friends ..lol.
SW-User
@RubySoo I always say it, lol. Cos its true
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@SW-User i HATE it. It indicates to me no intention at all of changing it or trying to putting it right.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
By jove, you've figured out why it's I'll advised to show people your feelings. Congratulations.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SteelHands me? 😂😂
Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
Depends what I'm pissed off about tbh.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@Thingschange4444 whats one thing that makes you mad?
Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
@RaemaSnr There's lots of things that trigger me with life in general. I'm not a fan of being patronised though. I rarely get mad though. If I do I have a nice heavy punch bag to use.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@Thingschange4444 I probably should invest in one then
"Stop being so sensitive"
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@DarkCrazyArtistGeekGamer totally- that's when people invalidate feelings
@RaemaSnr Shes a crybaby herself too but also very tough.
SW-User
@DarkCrazyArtistGeekGamer That genuinely aggrevates me
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
'It cant be that bad'
'Smile it may never happen'
'Stop over reacting'
[b]Stand up and face the reality [/b].
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@valobasa4ever the reality can suck😂
@RaemaSnr LoL you bet . ;-)
SW-User
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User Yeah no. 😂
SW-User
"You are being dramatic."
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User That one just makes me worse 😕

 
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