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Do you ask for help when you need it or do you suffer in silence?

Effloresce · 26-30, F
I’m really bad about asking for help, so I usually suffer in silence unless someone directly tells me they want to help me
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@Effloresce It's nice to have friends who offer.
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
One of the biggest lessons ive just learned. I used to never as for help, but truth is, sometimes we all need a little. It's okay to ask. I still don't ask for much, just a little bit.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@rottenrobi very nice.
Indy74 · 46-50, F
I ask if I really truly need it.☺
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@Indy74 I find it difficult.
Indy74 · 46-50, F
@Tomorrow it has to be an extreme emergency and even that is difficult.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
Yes.
royalblue1193 · 31-35, M
Try to do it myself
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@royalblue1193 Me too.
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
I’ll tell you tomorrow...


Literally...

Like the next day after today, Tomorrow... boy this is awkward 🙄
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
Asking for help was one of my most difficult life lessons and remains somewhat difficult. Giving is easy.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@Grateful4you Difficult for me as well.
I struggle for a while and then ask for help
@Tomorrow Why is that?
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
It looks like weakness.
@Tomorrow I understand how you might feel that way.
Both...just depends on what it is and who I have to ask.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@quitwhendone Yes. Same.
@Tomorrow It's better to ask for help but that can take a lot of courage.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
Ypure right. Often I just do the best I can and refuse to ask.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I will ask at times but I prefer to handle deep pain alone.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
SW-User
Only ask for help as a last and extreme resource...
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@SW-User Yes. Mostly I settle for doing what I can and forget asking.
SW-User
Depends. If I really need help, I ask
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
[@thing to do.] A difficult thing to do.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
I eventually crack and ask.
SW-User
I hate asking for help
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@SW-User same
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
I never ask
Depends on what the problem is.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F

 
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