What is it when your at your loneliest your too toxic to even be around?

What is that and why does that happen?

Melpomene · 22-25, F

I'm around people in the need of love but I'm not getting any - that's why I'm around them and that's why I have toxic behaviour towards them (though only to those that I believe should love me - friends, family, boyfriend). In all other cases, I usually isolate myself from others as to not have any bad influence.

MushroomFaerie

@Melpomene yes I grew up in a very toxic environment and as an adult have isolated to rebuild myself, find myself and learn to trust the right people. I'm ready to be happy now but loneliness can be a real killer

Melpomene · 22-25, F

@MushroomFaerie Then you have to find new people to be around. Just because you're ready to be around them doesn't mean they'll come to you.
Loneliness is number 1 when it comes to killing people...

MushroomFaerie

@Melpomene yeah I know

curiosi · 61-69, F

Solitude has a purpose, if you can accept that instead of referring it as loneliness you will grow.

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MushroomFaerie

@curiosi I really like your attitude. Thanks for sharing it with me right now

curiosi · 61-69, F

@MushroomFaerie This book changed my life. I decided that I will use this solitude to grow and this book has been such a help. I have to get off now but I will leave you the link.
http://siestakeybeachmeeting.com/index_htm_files/The%20Road%20Less%20Traveled.pdf

MushroomFaerie

@curiosi I don't know how to open links I can't click on but thanks. Yeah I'm sure there's a higher purpose for this suffering. Just tired right now

GreenGoddess · F

*You're

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MushroomFaerie

@GreenGoddess rude, again 🤦‍♀️. Guess we both have our flaws but I don't wander around calling them out. Bad spelling isn't nearly as bad as rudeness

GreenGoddess · F

@MushroomFaerie From my point of view you're being rude, forcing people to read your train wreck grammar. Not to mention that "You're not supposed to correct adults." nonsense. That's exactly what an ignorant person would say.

MushroomFaerie

@GreenGoddess justifying your bullshit again. Get off my post then. Simple

FoolishLuna · 56-60, F

We attract what you are. Loneliness breeds loneliness

MushroomFaerie

@FoolishLuna what if you have learned to be okay with loneliness and then it suddenly hits you again that you are infact alone and don't know how to get out

FoolishLuna · 56-60, F

i Can honestly say I can’t give advice on this ...as I’m going through it myself these days. All I keep saying to myself is ‘this too shall pass’ Hugs@MushroomFaerie

MushroomFaerie

@FoolishLuna yeah that's what I normally do but today and yesterday have been tough.
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PrivateHell · M

Misery loves company, but most people would rather not be miserable.

MushroomFaerie

@PrivateHell I'm happy but sometimes it gets too hard

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Tminus6453 · M

That doesnt make sense to me🤷‍♂️

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