What are your thoughts or feelings about someone trying to make you feel the "guilt feeling" while at the same time trying to reject the idea they could be guilty thus attempting to throw it or you?
@SW-User I think so too. I'm so unsure how to deal with those since they're people who I respect and are very "close" to me in life.
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Tell them it’s against your ethics and if they ask what they are tell them “it’s just how I feel personally” you don’t have to explain things or justify it @SW-User
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@SW-User I rarely ever justify myself. Usually I prefer silence but since I was challenged I decided to explain that what they expect will eventually lead to disappointment as I'm not that person "they're trying to paint"
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It depends. Some people who made me feel guilt helped me to rectify myself, some were manipulative.
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@SW-User The most manipulative ones I found were the "religious" ones so far.
@SW-User those people are toxic - get them out of your life
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@tenente Well. I distanced myself now. Since they are close family it's a bit harder so I took advice from professionals on how to go about it, but they still can't seem to actually come up with solutions in the long run 👀
