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How do you connect with people online?

Connect. If that's a word at all. Or do you just randomly socialize waiting for that like "eureka" moment? 😂
deadgerbil · 22-25
In my experience, asking unique questions might get a conversation going(like do you believe in free will(?), let's have a discussion based on that), having a good sense of humour can also facilitate some sort of bond, being genuine is also a large component of maintaining an initial connection. I've formed some pretty good friendships exclusively online.

Having said that, some people you start talking to aren't receptive, it's like talking to a wall, and then you also run the risk of encountering people who have issues that hurt the longevity of a connection, which you can do nothing about.
SW-User
@deadgerbil Yeah. You kind of hit the nail on the head like that. But some conversations don't leave room for development either, or some other contributing factors. Being catchy and argumentative is certainly what sparks something in a conversation sometimes you got to be weary too, because not everyone's main area of interest is the same either.
nem16 · 36-40, M
If you find out,please let me know! 😂
nem16 · 36-40, M
@SW-User Oh I am,I focus on my social awkwardness every day! 😂
SW-User
@nem16 Well somewhere you gotta start eh? :P
nem16 · 36-40, M
@SW-User Indeed.
SW-User
It happens but don't go too close. It won't end up well.
SW-User
@SW-User Selling yourself to appease others is like a slow death....
SW-User
@SW-User Sure it is. Especially when others are just waiting to take advantage.
SW-User
@SW-User Can't stand them. It's not always clear what their intents are though especially online best to just keep your mind open always.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
Waiting for that eureka moment sounds about right, I guess I don’t interact enough with others but when I do it’s very rare to actually make a connection.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@SW-User we can never know, maybe we’ll be aimlessly searching forever, maybe the connection is around the corner.
SW-User
@DHggmu *shrugs casually* who knows? Nothing seems to work for me lately.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@SW-User Yeah I can relate, lots going on. Being an adult sure is fun.
No, carefully craft a strategy as to who needs to be on your side and have your back.
SW-User
@aaaabbbb Some are great actors too though. Experience has just taught me to be weary of everyone around me I guess.
@SW-User that is exactly right, i also call them opportunist...
SW-User
@aaaabbbb frauds in general.
SW-User
It has to happen to itself
SW-User
@SW-User that’s true. Good things are worth waiting
SW-User
@SW-User Even if it takes forever 😂
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@SW-User 😀
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
I've usually waited for people to approach me.
SW-User
@ButterRobot Same honestly. It's rare for me to directly approach someone but hey,I'm female too xD
SerenitiesScars · 31-35, M
Definitely the moment..
SW-User
@SerenitiesScars I guess I can agree with that.
Prisoner619 · 26-30, M
Try "hey sexy"
SW-User
@Prisoner619 Haha. Could work well :P
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There are some of whom I’m very fond, with whom I’ve been communicating for several years now.
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@bijouxbroussard that’s great
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@bijouxbroussard Agree with Apar94 Take care of those you're happily in communication with =)
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@SW-User they’re precious

 
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