Would you rather...

...get attention for your body, things about you [b]everyone[/b] can see, things that make others turn you into an object to feed their lust or things only people who really [b]know[/b] and [b]care about[/b] you can see like your personality, character traits, your good heart and mind?

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summersong · F

The latter of course. Hands down.

SW-User

Definitely, absolutely, without a doubt, I want to be known for my character and personality.

NickiHijab · F

I’d like to think most would prefer the latter.

cheesyAF · 31-35, M

@NickiHijab Someone very dear to me seemd to prefer the first and it's really making me sad because I know she's [b]a lot[/b] better than that.😞

NickiHijab · F

@cheesyAF Maybe she can’t see what you see. I know people who resort to the same because they don’t appreciate themselves. It sucks. I guess she needs reminding.

cheesyAF · 31-35, M

@NickiHijab I do remind her at any given chance because I want her to know there's no need for her to seek the wrong kind of attention and I know there are quite a few people who tell her they appreciate these things about her too. It's like she has a hard time believing there's more to her even though she gets reminded of it a lot...

Spoiledbrat · F

Things about me not everyone can see so yes the last.

Mamapolo2016 · F

The first is fast, the second lasts.

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