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What’s with people who like to provoke others by offending them?

Insecurity?
I just like to piss people off.

I didn't receive any love during my childhood so bring sarcastic is my only way of emotional expression
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@offingg Why bother with what?
offingg · 26-30, F
@SumKindaMunster Why bother trying to offend them? I mean, I don’t get it
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@offingg It gets a reaction. It lets the other person know you are serious and not afraid to challenge them, insult them, and respond to them. It shows you are not intimidated by the other person. It shows you are willing to follow through and take action against another person.
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Insecurities and delusional thinking, that gets in the way of rational thoughts.
I mean I'm not a doctor, these are just my observations.
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
@offingg I wish I didn't observe it, but shit happens.
offingg · 26-30, F
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
@offingg 😜
Batman · 41-45, M
I don’t know fatty why do they?

Jk
offingg · 26-30, F
oh boy without that jk i wouldn’t have known @Batman
Batman · 41-45, M
Lol well ladies tend to be touchy on the weight thing
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
What a timely question. I was just explaining to some insecure crybabies elsewhere why some people do this.

For me, it's to elicit a reaction. I do it for 2 reasons.

1. Retaliation. Typically the poster will insult me either directly or indirectly. I retaliate and escalate.

2. Boundary testing. To push the person and see if the have the stamina to put up with me and keep up with me. If I insult you and your immediate reaction is to whine, shame and complain, you are a worthless opponent and have lost my respect.
offingg · 26-30, F
@SumKindaMunster That’s an interesting point, so sometimes it’s the only way people can be recgonized in a sense
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@offingg Yes. Notice the posts on this site. What gets the most responses? Nice, bland, posts where people are friendly and cordial, or the confrontational ones where people take a stand or provoke or stoke a controversial issue?
offingg · 26-30, F
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
To get reactions.
offingg · 26-30, F
Even reactions aren’t that satisfactory @YMITheWayIM
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
@offingg Reactions ain't satisfactions.
offingg · 26-30, F
@YMITheWayIM Surely there must be a connection when they are actively pursued?
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Yes and an inferiority complex
offingg · 26-30, F
ricky gervais @HoraceGreenley
LyricalOne · F
Their underpants are too tight. Makes them cranky.
Sounds pretty common here
offingg · 26-30, F
It's a way for them to get attention. Maybe they think it's the ONLY way, and then it becomes a habit. A bad habit, in my opinion!
offingg · 26-30, F
@cherryblueberryraspberry I share that opinion.
plinkplonk · F
They have nothing else to work with: intelligence, humility, character etc.

Trump has made being an obnoxious-dimwitted-bully kewl. Happy days!
PUBGGuy · 36-40
You're mom is insecure....Oooooooooooh!
offingg · 26-30, F
@PUBGGuy ba dum tss
PUBGGuy · 36-40
@offingg I'll be here all week :)
SW-User
Massive insecurity and bone-deep dissatisfaction with their own existence.
SpaceCreature · 26-30, F
Trolling perhaps?
offingg · 26-30, F
Yeah but why why troll? @SpaceCreature
SpaceCreature · 26-30, F
@offingg 🤷
@offingg Maybe they're bored and they need more positive goals in their life?
SW-User
most members here do that
offingg · 26-30, F
@SW-User Sure, but why?
Trevo · 26-30, M
Yea and meanness

 
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