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If a couple you and your spouse

Were friends with hinted they were into swapping partners would you pretend to not know what they meant or think about letting them know you are interested?
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thephoenix · M
Go for it you only live once. Enjoy life while you can.
AnneHoney · 41-45, F
When it happen to us early in our marriage it went right over my head. I had no idea they were asking us to join them until my husband told me when we got home and were in bed.
thephoenix · M
@AnneHoney: Did you eventually swap with them?
AnneHoney · 41-45, F
Yes much later
thephoenix · M
@AnneHoney: My wifeand I were the same way. it took us a while. But once we started we found a great life style.
OpinionsExpressed · 41-45, M
I think the risk with swapping, is the over-confidence attitudes that most people bring into it, and you gotta tread lightly here. The danger is that this usually has to do with having new experiences.

This in a way is the ultimate litmus test for connection between the couples
mountainman1234 · 70-79, M
When younger I would have been all for it but my wife would have nothing to do with it ,,
JFinch · 41-45, F
I definitely know what they mean.
Myself11 · 61-69, M
I let them know I was interested
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
this has happened - my wife has no interest
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
Go for it and enjoy
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
I think I would be definitely interested...getting my wife to do it might not be easy!
mountainman1234 · 70-79, M
I would let then know we were interested ,,,,
mountainman1234 · 70-79, M
I would let the know I am interested ,,,,
I'd definitely be interested...my wife?...not so much...
SW-User
of course not... that's wrong.
Serenitree · F
I'd never want to switch partners. I couldn't enjoy myself with someone else. I'd have been too busy thinking about the fact that he wanted to have sex with someone else's woman.
AnneHoney · 41-45, F
I think sex is an activity, not some monumentally attached to marriage religious act of commitment. When you were dating did you insist your sexual partners were virgins?
Serenitree · F
@AnneHoney: when I was committed to a relationship, married or not, I didn't screw other people. Dating was different. And no. Not even in my marriage did I care about who he had before me.

You're free to feel whatever you feel. You want to screw other guys. Go for it. But you don't get to tell me that my wishes are wrong.
AnneHoney · 41-45, F
@Serenitree: never said you were wrong for you
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My wife and I are into SWINGING. We have as many as 4 or 5 couples over every month. No sex with your partner only other married men or women. Your question is a mirror of how we got started.
StevenIzzi · M
lol...We are down...We are already swingers....Hell here is our swinglifestyle profile.
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melbeacher · 61-69, M
I would offer them a drink in my hot tub !
Goralski · 56-60, M
Smack em upside d head for askin

 
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