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First off I wanna say sorry for posting a lot about it but it's important to me. So I've been in no contact for 2 weeks now tho my ex. We've been broken up for a month now. A couple days ago she texted me asking me how I've been even after saying she'll never text or call me again. She was asking my coworker that she knows at school if I was still working where I'm working now. Then she texted me at 5 am last night with a text that was exactly like this "hey i know this is so fucking desperate but my nana passed away and i'm hurting really badly and i told you how much i love her and i understand if you don't wanna talk to me" (desperate for what?) anyways I know her nana did mean a lot to her so I did end up asking if she was ok cuz I do still care about her. Basically it she ended up saying "sorry I'll leave you alone like you wanted. Goodbye." (She said that 2 or 3 times actually...?) Did I make a mistake in giving her a little bit of attention or could that help with getting her back? This also makes me wonder why she wasn't going to the guy that she's been seeing for about 3 weeks now too. Does it sound like she really is desperate about getting my attention?
Daniel1120 · 22-25, M
Ps I believe the guy she's been seeing might just be a rebound cuz I don't think they are officially dating.
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you broke up a month ago and she's being seeing a guy for 3 weeks....I would suggest you stay the hell away from her.
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@Daniel1120: still, if someone meant something to me I wouldn't be dating a week later j/s
Daniel1120 · 22-25, M
@Kuronekko: yeah I understand that. I've had a chance but I'm still not seeing anybody cuz I'm not over her. I brought this up to her before and she said that She wasn't completely over me but that she mostly moved on when things stayed bad the last couple weeks in our relationship.
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@Daniel1120: don't waste your time, she obviously isn't.
clayanthony · 46-50, M
you've got to be cruel to be kind to yourself.i personally have found no good comes of staying in contact with ex's...but thats just my experience
Beige22 · 26-30, F
Move on She's just wasting your time

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