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Someone here who considers themselves solo polyamorous?

I want love and sex, not the relationship.
Tbh, I came across that expression only yesterday and although I'm all against labelling myself, this made me think:
"With dating, there is often an end goal of finding a partner and getting married. At least, this is the automatic assumption people make. In solo polyamory (at least my version), the purpose of dating is to connect with people however we connect – as friends, lovers, intellectuals, activity buddies. There isn’t an end goal of marriage, which allows the connection to happen where it does, and for the relationship to unfold as it wants to – not how we are forcing it to."
https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/solo-polyamory-isnt-just-dating/
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Candice · 46-50, F
You can't have real love without relationship.
Why not?
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that's not true
Candice · 46-50, F
Sex on its own is not love. @Kuronekko:
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@Candice: I never said anything about sex, but there are people I love deeply and don't have a relationship with.
@Candice: Whot's talking about only sex?
Candice · 46-50, F
You did. @LunaInvicta:
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@Candice: I think by "you" you mean you personally. People are different.
@Candice: First line of my question: "I want love and sex". ;)
Candice · 46-50, F
'Not the relationship.' And I said it's not real love without relationship. @LunaInvicta:
@Candice: Well yeah. I guess we have to agree that we disagree then. Thanks for your input.