Would you consider seeming vulnerable to your crush as a deal breaker?

I see vulnerable and highly emotional differently. Someone can be vulnerable and that's natural. Sometimes, things don't go our way and stuff happens. I'd wanna be there and have someone be there for me. Highly emotional is unattractive af 🙄
People who rely on feelings for too much can be very destructive since feelings are never neutral 🤷🏾‍♂️
We come loaded with bias and preference