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What’s Your “True Love” Success Story? Does it even exist? (Read for more)

[c=#BF0080]I want to read your success stories, of how you found “the one”.

There’s so many horror stories out there when it comes to love and dating and I need to lighten up my own mood. I haven’t been feeling the most optimistic when it comes down to matters of the heart, and.. “men”.

I’ve been mislead, dragged through the mud and left for dead. I’ve been manipulated into believing that what “we” had was the real thing. I’ve been hurt to the core, to the point where it makes me even question if I’ll ever end up with my true soul mate, [i]if they even exist.[/i]

However, I’m wise enough to know that not all men are the same, and at some point I have to hold myself accountable for the types of men I entertain and the red flags I ignore, regardless of “empathy” and feelings.

Feelings can cloud judgment, and emotions can block discernment ([i]I’m sure.[/i].)

But I do still believe in true love. ([i]Healthy love[/i]).


•What should women look for when trying to figure out of this man is truly serious about being with her? [i](I’m sure saying it isn’t enough, because some people lie.[/i]

•How did you know?

•When did you realize they were the one?

•What are your love languages?

•How to make a relationship last, even through trying times?[/c]
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SW-User
if they found love, they wouldn’t be here cheating 🍵
Mrowe718 · 41-45, F
@SW-User there are some creeps on here (Proven in my inbox), but in the mix there’s some cool people on here too that are actually quite normal (I’d hope). Lol
DamnFeelz · 36-40, F
@SW-User agreed. I just don’t talk to the cheaters though. Actually, I stop talking to people as soon as they make an advance in general on this thing. 😂🤷🏻‍♀️
tj78610 · 51-55, M
@DamnFeelz I find the idea of making advances via internet seems odd - what is the excitement of a message? Banter can be fun, I guess, but advances??? (I don't mean the sites that help you find someone local to see if you find a live human relationship - those are challenging, but I get it).
DamnFeelz · 36-40, F
Agreed.. whenever someone messages me something flirty in my head I’m like, “why...? What do you think is going to happen here?” but then again, I’ve never enjoyed windowshopping 😂😂😂 @tj78610
tj78610 · 51-55, M
@DamnFeelz You know, beauty is definitely something you can see in 2D, BUT, absolutely nothing compares to the touch of a dear partner. That requires 3D...
Mrowe718 · 41-45, F
@DamnFeelz the weirdest part is being messaged “hey beautiful”. Can’t...see...my...face... lol I do not respond to any messages because I don’t want to give an impression of interest. Some inboxes have actually been quite pleasant though, usually In response to some of my questions. Great advice I’ve received from some men on here. Not everyone is a douche, just...don’t reply.
tj78610 · 51-55, M
@Mrowe718 I understand that completely.

I haven't sent a PM here ever, and while I'm not saying I never would, it would be rare and for a reason I've not yet run into.

Keeping it public keeps it saf[b]er[/b].