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Do you know someone in an abusive relationship? What's the best way to help them out if they want out?

Mysti · 51-55, F
They need people to provide a serious support system. I.e. Somewhere to stay, help in finding the appropriate legal counsel and protections. Basically help to getting them in a position to be strong and able to stand up for and potentially support themselves
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
Currently I do not know of anyone.
I've been there myself.
I think the best way to be there for someone is to always be willing to listen and support them. When/if that time comes that they truly are serious about getting out of that situation, be a safe place for them to go.
Listen, be willing to stand between them and the trouble, a safe haven to stay ... help them connect with loved ones ... help them navigate law enforcement and social services ... and pray with them
Show your support for them be there if they need you, there's not much else you can do, the person has to really want out of it. But alot of times they get out and go right back. Because they love them. I get sick of hearing that one... I guess that includes the physical and mental abuse or what ever is going on.
Oh ... and if someone murders them ... lead the pursuit for justice ... too many abusers think they can get away with it ... the more we take down ... the better the lesson is ... that they will not get away with it.
I do, and its been a pattern, unfortunately. There’s nothing I can do, because she doesn’t want to leave, and she makes excuses for him. I’m at a point where I’m less inclined to help someone who doesn’t believe she [b]needs[/b] help. 😞
Travelbug · 56-60, F
@bijouxbroussard that is true. When my friend finally did leave her abusive partner and met a lovely chap who adored her she dumped him as she couldn't handle it and said she was only used to abusive men. Believe it or not, some women seem to want to be in that situation.
@Travelbug repetition compulsion
HannahSky · F
First step is safety. They need to be in a safe place.
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@RogueLoner ^Bingo^ Every single time I tried to do this, it backfired. Kinda like trying to break up a fight between two angry dogs. Not trying that again. Nope, not doing it.

 
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