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do you prefer an overly clingy person or somebody who is really distant?

Poll - Total Votes: 22
i like them constantly begging to talk to me
i’d rather talk to a person once a day then give them constant attention
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TheunderdogofNY · 36-40, M
I’m distant so I’m cool with someone like that. Someone being clingy to me is a red flag. I need to know that you have a life and you will be alright without me around all the time.
Success · 26-30, F
I choose sexy and clingy. Someone anxious to dive in head first.
SW-User
I find overly clingy people unbearably suffocating.

It's a rare few that I like talking to once a day.
@SW-User I feel that way, too.
SW-User
I like attention, but not too much attention honestly. I like my me time.

People who are distant I back away from really fast, as I feel they simply don't care or aren't interested.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I like them to be available. If I have to look for attention then I will shut down completely. People make time for those they care about.
User41 · 36-40, M
I prefer someone who is independent and very capable of tackling life on her own if need be.
No. I'd much rather have someone who's distant than someone who's clingy. That would drive me crazy.
SW-User
Excess of everything is bad so somewhere in the middle
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Of the two I'll take clingy. It demonstrates good taste
pentacorn · F
clingy's a killer.
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
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I like women who are NOT insecure and clingy. There is nothing worse than receiving multiple calls throughout the work day from a girl who only wants to "chit-chat," while working on a client's jobsite.
SameSame · 22-25, F
Somewhere in the middle is clearly best for most people, including me. But in the absence of that... I'd prefer someone who's clingy 😌
Lostpoet · M
I'm distant trying to be more giving. Sorry@SW-User👩💗
SW-User
@Lostpoet what's that mean? You're not answering the question.
Lostpoet · M
@SW-User I feel bad that you think I ignore you.
SW-User
@Lostpoet lol that's not the question tho
SW-User
Clingy, I am sick of the distant thing.
SW-User
I like balance. Attention but not smothery.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Honestly, I have no idea. I find distant men attractive but being cold myself I'm afraid we wouldn't even get started something between us.

By distant I mean talking to a person once a week, not once a day. Once a day is normal reality for many working people.
RedRhapsody · 31-35, F
Distant, with protective tendencies. I value my life.
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
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SW-User
I want him to be all over me and leaves me in peace whenever i wanted to. Lmfao
Once a day works fine
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
Um, neither! 😃
deadgerbil · 22-25
Overly clingy

 
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