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How do you break up with someone when your kids are attached to them more than you ?
I love him but he’s not my type anymore. He does things that disturbs me. He’s semi nice to the kids. Major turn off!!!! He always compare when one does better than the other. He comes straight in and gets in the bed and doesn’t shower. Street clothes germs is a peeve for me. He’s a junky person and he doesn’t want to get a job and take care of his kids he has the money to help one of his kids for school stuff and complains about it.... how do you break up with someone when he isn’t aware of why without telling him all these bashful things that I’ve expressed before and have told him that I don’t like but wont change. It’s hard breaking up with him I always end up feeling sorry for him because he says how he doesn’t feel comfortable at other people’s house he feels he do a lot when he doesn’t do enough. I’m confused I don’t know what to do 😥
26-30, F
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Aug 14, 2019
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Fungirlmmm · 46-50, F
You break up with him and tell him you are not compatible. If he pushes it then you give him the specific reasons.
blackcar · 22-25, M
Good luck.
Curiousity · 26-30, F
I know it so hard [@567763,blackcar]
abe182 · 41-45, M
Feeling sorry for someone is not the foundation for a relationship.
I feel you. I am going through a similar situation, to make things worse he also had a stroke. So now I have the added quilt of leaving someone that's disabled.
Curiousity · 26-30, F
I keep trying and I always end up back in the same boat again and some things make us kind of rely on each other but I kind of don’t need or want him anymore [@921868,Thekeeper]
Bertie · M
Stop procrastinating about it and stop wasting away your life with this loser. Either that or live to regret it.
Dan193 · 26-30, M
poison him
Mulder · 31-35, M
Tell him the truth, the only thing worse than having a broken heart is not knowing why it even happened.
ihatetrumplol · 22-25, M
“But he’s not my type anymore” break up. Staying with him would be bad for both of you in the long run don’t waste either of your time
LiMustache · 31-35
You love him but you hate and resent him .. Lay down the law for him tell him he has to do such and such or he's out (or youre out) but are they his kids or your kids or both? Your post is unclear

Its hard to walk away from someone you love but he's getting on your nerves and those are legit reasons to be annoyed

He knows you feel sorry for him tho so he's taking advantage imo
Curiousity · 26-30, F
I don’t have kids by him and yes he rubs me the wrong way and I’m only attached to the good things because he is great guy but he’s cheap we don’t go on dates and it’s just not going the way I planned he’s faithful but just somethings I can’t accept [@209334,LiMustache]
in10RjFox · M
Common mistake people make is to try to do things abruptly and all of a sudden, when things don't happen all of a sudden. So start withdrawing slowly by reducing interactions, engaging in alternative activities ... slowly you move yourself and kids away from the person..

Make independent decisions without relying on the person.. ignore the person as if he doesn't exist ..

You will find yourself to have drifted safely away from the person .. this is what it means to be the change ..
Curiousity · 26-30, F
Yeah see he moved in with me[@390760,in10RjFox]

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