I really just don’t know what to do anymore.

The girl that I’ve been talking to for over a couple of months is really pissing me off. We haven’t been on a date yet, but have planned multiple times and half the time she has made excuses like she’s tired or she would feel bad about something. She hasn’t asked me jack shit about myself. It’d been me having to tell her stuff about me and it hasn’t been nearly as much as I know about her. She was telling me that I only wanted to do what I wanted when it came to the date planning, but I did ask her and she would say I don’t care or I can’t think of anything. I feel like I’m wasting my time and the only reason why I’m still talking to her is because I’ve already invested a lot of time into this girl and just want to meet her at least once. Any advice?

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PrincessVelvet · F

If someone asks me out on a date and I'm interested I go on the date. No matter how busy I am I will make the time for what's important. No reason for excuses she's just not into you.

JarJarBoom · 41-45, F

Give it one more shot, if she continues..she's not interested in you

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VulcanGalaxy · 26-30, M

I’m gonna ask her what was the date of when we first started talking. If she doesn’t know then I think I’m done.

JarJarBoom · 41-45, F

@VulcanGalaxy that seems odd...she gets it right..the what?? More stalling

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LukeTheDuke · M

this is a complete waste of time. Know this: broken dates means broken hearts, it simply means that the person is stringing you along and they’re using you for their own reassurance and attention, but they are not into you in a romantic way.

Ask yourself this: if it was her favourite Hollywood star who she had arranged a date with, would there be any chance that she would break that date even once let alone multiple times?