Women: Ever see a 'man' who takes out insecurities on you? Sucks, huh?

I mean, can we talk? I'd appreciate some sincere advice from women only. Thanks.

Why would there be a need to control a woman and not let her talk or think for herself? I have noticed aunts, grandmas (who are alone), even my mom had macho acting men who love to save face and have a big mouth. Men in my family seemed to enjoy pissing women off, then it's fight or flight. It's an old tired routine that gets nowhere. Anyway, it's nice to talk it out. ty