Should I stay or should I go?
My man annoys me. He thinks the only bill he has to pay is the phone bill. He claims he will get a job but hasn鈥檛 got a job yet. I鈥檓 not working at the moment so am I contradicting the situation here? He works on cars which isn鈥檛 enough money. I have income enough to pay my own bills and do my part as a parent. I pay the rent and for the washer and dryer. I provide the food he gives me rides I don鈥檛 have transportation at the moment but I am a business owner. He smokes cigarettes and they smell horrible and I hate to complain so much but stuff he does annoys me. He comes in get in the bed with his street clothes on and don鈥檛 shower until I鈥檓 nearly tired and sleepy. I feel like he uses me for a place to stay and by bills not being so high he鈥檚 content with just paying the phone bill. I believe that he has bad home training he lives like a bum he鈥檚 hunky and cluttered while I鈥檓 neat and clean I鈥檝e had talks with him about this he keeps getting in our bed with dirty clothes. He doesn鈥檛 take care of his kids call them and check on them unless I request and demand that he does. He had a bad odor I鈥檓 not turned on by him anymore. Yesterday he said I was set in my ways because I cook and clean prepare all four of our plates and I feel the least he could do is wash the dishes. I have a 7 year old and a 3 year old so I鈥檓 not able to make it a chore for them just yet. But I feel like I鈥檓 doing everything and he鈥檚 doing nothing I got back with him because he said he had a job. Well Monday came and he never went to it. His concerns on not getting a job is because child support. Am I wrong for wanting him to get a job and I鈥檓 not working? What should I do? I don鈥檛 want to make a wrong decision in leaving because he has potential he is good to me and the kids but I feel like we just playing house for the sake of the kids. Which aren鈥檛 his! I kind of need him in a way but then again I don鈥檛 because I pay for everything except the phone bill. He isn鈥檛 on my lease because he鈥檚 a felon and I鈥檓 on hounding so if they find out he鈥檚 living with me I can lose it all. I need advice on what I should do.... thanks for listening
26-30, F
