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So what now?

I have this friend that I've added on snapchat 2 years ago and we talked every now and then, said hey, etc. So throughout the couple years, he would send me messages and say how much he likes me but I never really did anything about it. Well now, he's got my attention because of how kind and sweet he is. A few days ago, we started chatting over the phone, and it was really nice so we did it a couple days in a row. Well now, he had kind of stopped messaging me. Not in a rude way, but more like, because he's a construction worker, he is kind of busy and sleeps earlier but doesn't really say hey. To get to the point I'm kind of crushed about it. Should I wait until he sends me a message and says hi? Or am I overreacting and should give him some space to catch up on work and say hi in a couple days? Because I haven't been able to understand guys lately. 馃檮
Redstar36-40, M Best Comment
I've been in similar situations before and for all you know, he could be thinking the same thing and waiting for you to say something first. That's what would be going through my mind, anyway. So, I think you should say hi this time but if this happens again, don't say anything until he does. That way, you'll feel better now and also be letting him know that you want to talk to him more. Next time, wait for him to say something first, if he really does like you, he will contact you and since you did it first last time, while that doesn't mean it's "his turn", he shouldn't be waiting for you or wondering why you're not saying anything first.
SaraxKay26-30, F
@Redstar thank you so much. I know I've got a lot of priorities in my life to better myself, but I do like the guy and want to invest a little bit of my time with him. Thank you once again!
Redstar36-40, M
You're welcome and thanks for best answer. I hope it works out for ya


 
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