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So my bf has publically stated he

hates Christmas. Should I return his gifts OR find a new bf who isn’t so negative? 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
How you doin'?
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
A lot of us hate Christmas time.
Personally it just reminds me of all the people i've lost in my life.
All those friends and relatives no longer here.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Oh I hear you on that one! Lost my beloved grandpa Christmas day 2005 😭. @Picklebobble2
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@Jeephikelove As a time of reflection it's a bit of a downer.
Add to that some folks unrealistic expectations; money worries; stress. etc.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
For sure! @Picklebobble2
If he is positive in everything else, losing Santa day with him isn’t so bad.

And you can give him the present regardless. Gifts are gifts.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Ya he’s not, he’s a downer most of the time. @BigbangFACTS
@Jeephikelove wow. It maybe time to leave
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Ya, I’m thinking perhaps, I hate giving up though. @BigbangFACTS
curiosi · 61-69, F
It's not unusual for many of us to hate Christmas. While my childhood was hell things escalated at the holidays. It makes it hard to enjoy even years later.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
True, but it’s not the case he’s just a grump. @curiosi
SW-User
I’ll mail you some lumps of coal for his stocking 😈
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Lol @SW-User
SW-User
@SW-User me too please, need to keep the generators going where they're working towards none
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
It's his way of avoiding buying presents for others. It's a real asshole move.

I knew a guy that would break up with his girlfriend by Thanksgiving so he could avoid getting her Christmas presents.

And he was a real asshole.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Ya...he sure can be an asshole and yes he would love to not buy any gifts, and honestly I don’t care but don’t shit on excitment for it.😤@HoraceGreenley
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
@Jeephikelove that too
SW-User
No! That’s dumb he’s allowed to feel how he wants about a holiday. Maybe you should ask him why. And even if it’s nof a good reason that’s not a great reason to end it with someone
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
You’re so cute @SW-User
OnixBre · 26-30, M
If you feel it is alright to come online to mock your boyfriend for his feelings, then the second.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
This site is for venting and such, you moron. 🙄@OnixBre
OnixBre · 26-30, M
@Jeephikelove Indeed. I vent against judgmental people that believe they have the right to tell others how to feel / insult strangers / miscellaneous bullshit.
SW-User
@OnixBre Which is exactly what you are doing. She's right - you're a moron.
Buy him a visit to a psychiatrist :)
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Fuck ya! He needs it so bad!@SStarfish
@Jeephikelove ya who doesnt like Christmas
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Well it’s fine to not like but don’t be dick about it everyday. @SStarfish
SW-User
Find a new boyfriend. No question about it!
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Part one is done, he moved out December 29th. Just going through the process now... @SW-User
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
Hmmm. Possibly both!!
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Think you’re right @thepreposterouspanda
Thatsright · 61-69, M
More cowbell!
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Lmao!! @Thatsright
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
On...? @DragonFruit
hearttalk · M
[i]Move on[/i]
Bubbles · 36-40, F
Well it seems like maybe he would rather not celebrate, so return the gifts
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Seriously considering it if he’d rather not. 🤷🏻‍♀️ @Bubbles
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
I wouldn’t judge him so harshly on it.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
There’s obviously more to this...my judgement is fully justified.@InvaderNice
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
@Jeephikelove Ah I see. Sorry.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
It’s ok 😊. @InvaderNice
hearttalk · M
I think you are a smart lady...lets talk when you have time.
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Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Lol good thing they’re not wrapped yet. @Stereoguy
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SW-User
Or maybe Communicate and see if there is actually some kind of valid reasoning behind his aversion.

I don't know
Nobody asked me
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Oh there is, has nothing to do with me but I get to hear/deal with it far too often. @SW-User
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Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
That doesn’t even make sense,since he’s the one with the problem. @Emosaur

 
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