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How to stay sane whilst waiting for a text from a guy?

UPDATE:

I was WAAAYY overthinking, he has asked me out a second time 😅







With full seriousness, I went on a date yesterday that was nothing short of perfect.

Now I'm waiting for a text back. This should be a normal thing but now I feel like a teenager, checking my phone and I feel anxious opening every message I get now.

This has also raised my axiety a lot, mostly about him and all the things I hope he didn't notice because I went home and noticed them and now I am so so so so scared he saw and he will reconsider and not speak to me again.

Am I being a bit childish about all of this?
Trevo · 26-30, M
It's perfectly normal don't worry lol. You can text him fist to spare you the anxiety
Sweet517 · 51-55, F
Stop texting. After a great date, let him text first is usually the best strategy. If you keep texting, you look desperate. Having said that, of course you’re anxious. It’s always like that when you have a good vibe with someone and don’t get a text or call pretty quickly afterwards.
VioletSea · 22-25, F
@Sweet517 okay so i ruined our date I want to bury myself in a small hole omg...
Hippymobiler70 · 26-30, M
Embrace the fact you’re into him and just shoot him a text tomorrow, guys love that FYI
VioletSea · 22-25, F
@Hippymobiler70 *internal screams*
Bobuck94 · 26-30, M
@VioletSea you drunk text him 3 times and he didnt reply trying to get nudes? hes a keeper on that premise alone
VioletSea · 22-25, F
@Bobuck94 That's so true
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Certainly over thinking it !
Call him !
lightningblue · 26-30, M
Bobuck94 · 26-30, M
or hes ghosting you because he completely hated the whole experience. keep us posted with the answer👍
VioletSea · 22-25, F
@Bobuck94 WHY would you raise my stress levels like that omg I'm melting.
VioletSea · 22-25, F
@Bobuck94 :-) Nope didn't ghost
SW-User
Probs over-thinking it.
VioletSea · 22-25, F
@SW-User Majourly overthinking but [u]what if i am right[/u]

 
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