Have you ever had a break up , with a long term partner, after you admitted your long desired fetish ?

I can see how that can happen, fetish can be very consuming and people might not want to deal with that and people can have fetishes with a lot of ewwwww factor. Some fetishes are even a bit evil. So I am not real surprised. Of course it does not always have to be like that, sometimes people can incorporate fetish into some type of role play and have fun with it, one of the biggest problems I think is the person with the fetish not recognizing that the other person does not want to do that all the time.

No, but my wife will not reciprocate or even entertain the idea of what I wanted to do. It has left me feeling a bit put out. Its not a necessity with me, but I have been pretty open with her on my kink and she still doesn't want anything to do with it.

no. but then I've no fetish, per se. I do have an open minded husband though

I've had women I've dated stop seeing me after I told them about my bisexuality. Shame

No, but she giggled, which was what I feared.