Is it unwise to date an older guy? There's a twenty-year age difference between me and my...

Madgirl · 26-30, F

as long as you are both happy and enjoy each other its perfectly fine...

what matters are your feelings now how other peoplse see you

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SW-User

I would feel weird about it but I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with it as long as you're both adults

Blanqe · 22-25, T

not to me. two adults can date whoever they like.

as long as you are happy.

lakergoy · 36-40, M

If you are cool it's cool

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

as long as ur both happy & u both respect each other. I know some people don't care on a age gap, some do - just depends on the couple i suppose!

Zoranna · F

No. You're both adults and if you enjoy each others company it's no big deal at all. Be happy. :-)

Tres13 · 51-55, M

when ur 80,he be 100

bhatjc · 46-50, M

Just take things slowly.

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

It may become an issue for you guys or it may not.
In some cases it is successful, but even in those ones I always feel sorrow for the younger one if that other person is their true love. They spend so long with them and then more often than not they will die before them, long before. Then they are left heart broken and alone forced to start over again. But it is a risk we all run at smaller rates with like aged partners. So go for it and cut it if it ends up being more of a burden than a joy.