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Do u think that two people should live together before getting married ?

This is such a commonality in today's world. Not that it makes that much of a difference long term. Because oil and water do not mix kids. Its about the soul connection. Always remember this now. Back to the question. Do you believe that two people should live together before they are married. If so, then explain to us why. Thank you. 馃檪
Couples "should" do whatever they're comfortable with and able to do, whether it's living together, or waiting.

I would prefer living together before getting married. Living together offers an opportunity to really know another person, in the most personal ways. I don't think I could know someone without being around them a significant amount of time, seeing what they are like outside of public situations, being a witness to everything, not just the surface interactions. I crave a kind of shameless intimacy and am morbidly curious to experience another person in every way possible. I wanna see a man poop, and fart, and have that kind of comfort around me, I wanna see how he takes care of himself/hygeine, I wanna see how long he leaves the dirty dishes out, how he cares (or doesn't) for his space, how he behaves, how he likes to spend his time when there's no need to perform socially... Without living in the same space, there would be a lot missing to determine whether we could stand being together (ideally) forever more.
Zonuss41-45, M
@lovelywarpedlemon Thanks for responding. 馃檪
Absolutely. You don鈥檛 truly know a person until you live with them. Living together before getting married allows you to really gauge the strength and depth of a relationship before making a life long commitment.
Zonuss41-45, M
@ProdigalSummer You have a good point there. Sometimes things come out when you are living with someone. And then you are like what the hell. 馃檪
Raffie61-69, F
I think people should live together first. We get caught up in the romance that we lose the compatability factor. Marriages are too costly to dissolve...test the waters before leaping.
Zonuss41-45, M
@Raffie I agree. Test it well or it could be an epic disaster. 馃檪
hippyjoe195561-69, M
Only if they want to end up divorced. For some unknown reason people who live together before marriage have a higher probability of divorcing later.
Zonuss41-45, M
@hippyjoe1955 Hmmmmm.
SW-User
I don't think people should get married or live together.
Zonuss41-45, M
@SW-User Im not surprised. 馃檪
FurryFace61-69, M
yes for at least a year to get to know each other
Zonuss41-45, M
@FurryFace I see.
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