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Is it okay to share nothing with your partner other than the bed?

RachaelRider46-50, F
No. My hubby & I share our entire lives with each other.
SerenitreeF
@RachaelRider is that because you want to?
RachaelRider46-50, F
@Serenitree Absolutely! We love each other so much we want to spend all of our time with each other.
SerenitreeF
@RachaelRider then that is what is perfect for you.
SerenitreeF
It depends on what the partnership is really about. If it works for them, and life is good under those conditions, then I say it is perfectly fine. If either one isn't satisfied with that, then as betweenfatandfit says, it isn't a partnership, and the one who isn't happy with it should address the issue and if it can't be changed they should dissolve the relationship and move on.
SW-User
That's what my last relationship was like, and it sucked because I felt like I had no freedom either, and the sex gets boring afterwards because theres no sensual feelings with it and it feels like lust rather than love.
SW-User
I think what I asked is different what if they have two bathrooms and separate closet/wardrobe and dressing area etc? Nothing else is different than a loving a couple.
SW-User
@SW-User I get what you mean, my mum and dad have that living arrangement at their house, but they are also in an open marriage too. So they have that extended freedom as long as there's no strings attatched. I think they are at that stage of life where they want to feel free before they hit the retiring age.
SW-User
Oh God! Is it that hard for anyone to understand my point.. I was not intending open relationship. I mean the couple is happy and satisfied it's just that they don't have same wardrobe where her bra is missing and found with his shirt and his shaving kit is lost with her perfumes. Where he can shower and she can also shower in her bathroom having said that when they feel taking shower together they obviously can. The bed, the kitchen and all other rooms and stuff is all shared like a couple or a family.
no I think partners should share more than that.
SW-User
No, that all is there just that bed is the only 'thing' they share
@SW-User I hate to say it but you might be right for some 馃槺 bloody selfish twats if its true....cant be true for all though.
SW-User
Okay
I think I get it now do you mean having you own individual space in the house and sharing the bed? if so nothing wrong with that.
SW-User
Yes 馃槉 thank you so much
SW-User
No, big room has everything for two people.. a lot of love and care is there
SW-User
for a fuckbuddy partner--perfect
Hdryder55561-69, M
No it isn't mija
SerenitreeF
@Underconstruction Just a what if scenario....if I may.

What if you have a partner and you share everything and it's all good, but after several years, you grow in different directions, and you're lives diverge, but meanwhile, you still really care deeply about each other, and the sex is still good, but that's all it is. Should the couple divorce and find separate accommodations, even though they are very comfortable with this arrangement?
Hdryder55561-69, M
Your question was very veg, the way you asked it usually refers to only sharing sex
Mrsbetweenfatandfit26-30, F
I don't think they are really a partner then
SW-User
I think I don't know how to ask it.. Lol!!
SerenitreeF
@SW-User I think you made it quite clear, and I still stick with my original response. If it is good for both, then I see nothing wrong with it.
SW-User
Cool!

 
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